For as he thinks in his heart, so is he. Proverbs 23:7 (NKJV)
Years ago, I learned an invaluable lesson: Whatever we focus on, we become. That simple statement taught me a great deal.
Wherever we put our energies or our attention, those things will
develop. Another way I like to say it is, "Where the mind goes, the man
follows!"
If I begin to think about ice cream, I will soon find myself in my car
pursuing ice cream. My thought will stir my desires and emotions, and I
will make the decision to follow them.
If we focus only on the negative things in our lives, we become negative
people. Everything, including our conversation, becomes negative. We
soon lose our joy and live miserable lives and it all started with our
own thinking.
You might be experiencing some problems in life-not realizing that you
are creating them yourself by what you're choosing to think about. I
challenge you to think about what you're thinking about!
You might be discouraged and even depressed and wonder what caused it.
Yet if you will examine your thought life, you will find that you are
feeding the negative emotions you are feeling. Negative thoughts are
fuel for discouragement, depression, and many other unpleasant emotions.
We should choose our thoughts carefully. We can think about what is
wrong with our lives or about what is right with them. We can think
about what is wrong with all the people we are in relationship with or
we can see the good and meditate on that. The Bible teaches us to always
believe the best. When we do that, it makes our own lives happier and
more peaceful.
I have a great life and a loving husband and children. And I am
privileged to be used by God to bless millions of people around the
world through the wonderful ministry He has given me. But life isn't
perfect, and if I had allowed the devil to fill my mind with negative
thoughts as he once did long ago, I would have been defeated.
I want to focus on God's grace and give thanks for all the good things in my life. I don't want to focus on what I don't have.
An old friend used to quote this saying: "As you wander on through life,
brother, whatever be your goal, keep your eye upon the donut and not
upon the hole." Too many people focus on what's not there and what's not
right.
All of this is to say that our thoughts largely determine our destiny.
Our thoughts also determine our happiness. Proverbs 23:7 is one of my
favorite verses. Thoughts are powerful. They aren't just words that flow
through our minds. So it is very important for us to decide what we
will allow to rest inside our minds.
We must not forget that the mind is a battlefield. We must always
remember that our adversary will use it in any way he possibly can to
trap us.
I'm reminded of a man who came to one of our meetings.
He wanted deliverance from viewing pornography. He said that one time he
had seen something on the Internet after accidentally logging on to a
site that was filled with explicitly sexual pictures. The next day he
laughed about it to one of his coworkers. "Who wants to watch that
stuff?" he asked.
The next night he was back at the site again. And many nights after
that. He purchased sexual material and had it sent to his office. He
kept his stash of pornography hidden from his family. "What's a little
thing like that going to do?" he reasoned.
He confessed that the more he saw the images, the more he thought of
women as objects, objects for his pleasure. One day his wife said, "I
don't know what's happened to you, but you can either deal with your
attitude or I'm leaving."
His life was rapidly going downhill before he asked for prayer. "I never
thought just watching a couple of porno sites like that could be so
addictive," he said.
To put it another way, we can't have a positive life and a negative
mind. Our thoughts our focus is what determines where we end up.
Jesus, our friend and Savior, wants our minds to be filled with
positive, beautiful, and healthy thoughts. The more we focus on those
things, the more readily we defeat Satan's attacks.
Dear patient and loving God, ask You to forgive me for focusing my
thoughts on things that are not pleasing to You. I pray that You will
help me fill my mind with thoughts that are clean and pure and
uplifting. In Jesus' name. Amen.
From the book
Battlefield of the Mind Devotional by Joyce Meyer. Copyright © 2006 by Joyce Meyer. Published by FaithWords. All rights reserved.